Best of Seduction

By Derek Vitalio

Before you get to the Bond and Connection phase with a girl, you first need to build social value for yourself. Without enough social value, she won’t reciprocate the connection and think you’re just another “nice guy” trying to get into her pants.A great way to build that social value is through planned stories and routines.

Planned stories and routines free up your mind to focus on other things.

Like a computer, your brain only has so many clock cycles spare.

Imagine you’re on your way to a bar or club and you’re getting yourself into a good state for approaching women.

Now, imagine that you’re driving along the highway at the same time on the way there – a bit distracting.

Now imagine your friend is in the passenger’s seat asking you about math problems.

There’s only so much that your brain can multitask at one time.

And when you’re talking to women, there’s a LOT for your brain to do.

So you don’t want to bog yourself down in the middle of an interaction with the complex task of coming up with witty conversation pieces on the fly – especially when they can be prepared for ahead of time.

First, I’ll give you a few example routines, and then I’ll show you how to use them.

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By: Thundercat ArtOfApproaching.com

To quote the actor Chris Tucker – “It’s Friday, you
ain’t got no job, and you ain’t got sh*t to do!”

Well, maybe you do have a job and things to do, but
are you doing the things you WANT to do?

Namely: Are you going out tonight to meet some
women?

Friday night is probably the BEST night of the
week to meet women.

Think about it:

It’s been a long, hard week. People are getting off
work. They don’t have anything to do the next day.
They can sleep in as late as they want. They’re
looking to unwind and release some stress. In other
words…

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By Derek Vitalio

Virtually all women want to feel an intimate sense of bond and connection with their man in a relationship.

So a lot of guys naturally attempt to establish that sense of bond and connection with a girl right away.

They approach a girl at a bookstore or club and attempt to establish deep rapport right away by eliciting her values or doing an incredible connection routine.

Unfortunately, they walk away brushed off by the girl and scratching their heads as to what they did wrong.

What went wrong is that they tried to establish an intimate bond and connection TOO SOON.

Yes, getting deep rapport with a girl is necessary – eventually.

But NOT at the first moment you meet her.

If you try for bond, connection, and deep rapport at the first moment you meet a girl, it will blow up in your face.

Why?

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